How It Works
Three steps to your pattern
A science-based journey from self-reflection to self-understanding. No guesswork, no vague labels — just your actual patterns.
Take the Assessment
Answer 64 slider-based questions across four validated psychological frameworks. No right or wrong answers — just honest self-reflection.
We Analyze Your Patterns
Your answers are scored across 15 dimensions covering attachment, love style, conflict behavior, and emotional regulation.
Get Your Personalized Report
Receive a 20+ page report with your relationship type, hero strengths, shadow patterns, growth experiments, and a partner-shareable summary.
64 questions · 10 minutes · Free result
6 Relationship Patterns
Which pattern runs your love life?
Everyone has a hero side and a shadow side. The quiz reveals both.
The Flame
“I love hard and I fight hard — because you matter to me”
Passionate, emotionally brave, all-in. You bring fire and intensity to everything you love.
The Anchor
“I’m your safe harbor in any storm”
Steady, safe, reliable, builds deliberately. You are the foundation others can count on.
The Free Spirit
“I love you more when I’m free to be me”
Authentic, adventurous, fun. You bring lightness and freedom to love.
The Guardian
“I’ll always put us first”
Devoted, selfless, loyal. You protect the people you love with everything you have.
The Driver
“We should never stop becoming better together”
Growth-oriented, ambitious for the relationship. You push both partners to evolve and never settle.
The Dreamer
“Wherever you are, and whatever you do, be in love”
Deeply romantic, creates meaning, emotionally brave. You believe love is the most important thing in life and you live like it.
Takes 10 minutes · Free result
Built on 4 peer-reviewed psychological frameworks
Your Personalized Report
What you'll learn about yourself
- Your hero strengths and your shadow blind spots
- How you bond, love, fight, and feel — across 4 domains
- The relationship patterns you keep repeating (and why)
- A growth roadmap with experiments tailored to your scores
- A partner decoder ring (“How to Love Me” page)
- Guided reflection prompts for deeper self-awareness
20+ pages · Personalized from your answers · Not a generic type description
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Ready to see what's really going on?
Most personality tests tell you what you want to hear. This one tells you what you need to hear.
64 questions · 10 minutes · Free result